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Relationship Breakthrough:
From Ordinary to Extraordinary

May 12 - 19, 2025

A TRANSFORMATIONAL COUPLES RETREAT

Imagine stepping away from the noise of life—no distractions, no escape—just you, your partner, and the raw, tender truth of your relationship. Welcome to a sacred cauldron of transformation: a space where love is rekindled, connection deepened, and wounds alchemized into healing through the sacred art of Tantra Massage and the principles of The Art of Conscious Relating. This is your invitation to dismantle what no longer serves you, dissolve outdated paradigms, and shatter ego constructs that have kept you distant and divided. Together, you’ll move from transactional love—conditional and limited—into a partnership of sacred service, defined by mutual reverence, presence, and shared growth. This isn’t just a retreat; it’s a relational rebirth. By shedding false narratives and remembering who you truly are as individuals, your bond will transform, opening the door to a new dimension of sex, love, and connection. Whether you feel frustrated, disconnected, or yearning for deeper intimacy, this 7-day immersive experience will strip away the barriers holding you back and awaken a relationship that is alive, authentic, and rooted in Truth.

Retreat Highlights

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Luxurious Scottsdale villa with private bedrooms and a resort-style pool

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An intimate group setting for personalized attention (6 couples max)

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Daily gourmet meals, fueling your body and spirit

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Profound teachings: Tantra Massage, Conscious Relationship Coaching, and sacred practices

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Expert guidance by seasoned practitioners with over three decades of combined experience

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Post-retreat Zoom session for integration and continued support

Not an Ordinary Couple's Retreat

This Scottsdale Couples Retreat is unlike anything you’ve ever experienced—it’s not your standard getaway or cookie-cutter relationship workshop.

Think of this retreat as a complete transformation in love, intimacy, and connection—a fusion of sacred Tantra practices and cutting-edge relational tools.

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While other couples’ retreats might skim the surface, we take you to the depths

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Forget surface-level advice, awkward exercises, and uninspired icebreakers that lead to temporary results.

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The 7-day Relationship Breakthrough is NOT that.

 

Instead, immerse yourself in a transformative experience featuring authentic Tantra Massage, conscious relationship skills, and sacred rituals—practices that not only go deeper but create lasting, life-changing transformations.

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A joyful couple dressed in white, dancing and laughing on a serene beach at sunset, embodying intimacy, connection, and bliss.

The Relationship Breakthrough is a masterclass in relational and spiritual mastery, designed for couples who crave something extraordinary: a space to reignite passion, dissolve barriers, and emerge as co-creators of a relationship rooted in truth, love, and divine connection.

This is transformation in overdrive—a pressure cooker for your relationship where accelerated breakthroughs and rapid growth occur in just seven days.

 

It’s a lifetime of change compressed into one unforgettable week, giving you the tools, insights, and practices to transform your relationship forever.

The 3 Pillars of Relational Rebirth

Joyful couple learning Tantra Massage, practicing on each other with connection and intimacy at the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat.
Pillar 1: Alchemy of Tantra Massage

Awaken Your Body, Open Your Heart, and Prepare for Transformation

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Our journey begins with Tantra Massage, a sacred practice that dissolves barriers and opens the gateway for profound connection.

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  • Relax: Withdraw from the sensory overload of daily life and shift your nervous system into healing mode

  • Tenderize the Soul: Let go of the emotional armor and become open to change.

  • Purify: Release stagnant energies that have weighed you down and create space for renewal.

  • Awaken the Heart: Open your heart to love, learning, and connection - the cornerstones for integration. 

  • Heal: Use sacred touch to help your partner release wounds and heal.

From Transactional Love to Sacred Service:
A Tale of Two Paradigms

The Old Paradigm: Transactional Love​​
A handshake over a desk, symbolizing the transactional nature of the old paradigm in relationships—love as a business deal
It’s a quiet evening at home. The dinner dishes sit half-washed in the sink (again). ​​

You and your partner share a couch, but the space between you feels more like a chasm. 

 

The day’s frustrations bubble beneath the surface, unspoken but palpable.

 

“You didn’t take out the trash,” one of you mutters, the words sharper than intended.

 

What follows is the same well-worn script: blame, defensiveness, silence. Each retreats into their own corner, tallying mental scorecards of who gave more and who fell short. 

 

Love feels less like a sanctuary and more like a transactional business deal—cold, conditional, and calculated. If I do this, will they finally do that? If I give a little more, will they meet me halfway?

Beneath the unspoken negotiations, deeper questions fester

-Can I trust them to hold my heart with care? 

-Will they protect and honor me? 

-Are we capable of building something fulfilling together?

 

​​Vulnerability feels risky, so you pull back.

 

Love becomes a guarded exchange instead of the expansive, liberating force you once believed in.

 

The warmth and spontaneity that defined your connection are distant memories, replaced by quiet calculations and the exhaustion of unmet expectations.

 

You lie in bed, back-to-back, staring into the darkness, wondering:

​Is this all there is?

Can we ever have the relationship we dream of?

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Where do we even begin?

A disconnected couple lying back-to-back in bed, symbolizing emotional distance and the struggles of a relationship before transformation.
A couple sharing an intimate moment in a serene beachside setting, embodying the deep connection and intimacy nurtured during the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat
The New Paradigm: Sacred Service​

​It’s a quiet evening at home, 30 days after the 7-day Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat. Together, you prepare for one of your weekly rituals. One of you lights candles and sets the music, while the other creates a sanctuary for your Tantra Massage session.

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You settle into the yabyum position—a posture that once felt too vulnerable, too intimate. Now, it’s a gateway to connection.

 

You stare into each other’s eyes, and for the first time in years, you see each other clearly—not as partners in the daily grind, but as divine reflections, magnificent and whole.

 

Emotional safety fills the space like a warm, golden light.

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There’s no scorekeeping, no silent tally of who gave more or fell short. Instead, there’s a shared understanding: We are in service to each other because our love is worth it. The petty irritations of the past—the trash, the toilet seat, the dishes—are no longer battlegrounds.

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When challenges arise, you meet them as a team—not as opponents but as co-creators, weaving solutions together from self-awareness, compassion, and love.

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The old paradigm was about survival, about getting by. The new paradigm is about thriving. It’s about elevating your relationship into a spiritual partnership grounded in trust, devotion, and the sacred.

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Your love and relationship have become a living, breathing entity—a creation you fiercely protect and nurture.

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No longer confined by what’s “fair,” you embody a love that is expansive, limitless, divine—and ALIVE! 

Meet Your Teachers

Cheryl Bourget, Couples Coach and Relationship expert for the retreat

Cheryl Bourget

Intuitive Relationship Alchemist

Tiffany Tanner, Tantra Teacher for Couples Retreat

Tiffany Tanner

Tantra Massage Teacher

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Shawna Hart

Teacher Assistant & Event Coordinator

Apply to Join the 
Relationship Breakthrough for Couples

EARLY BIRD

Available until March 29, 2025

Best Price

$6499 per couple

SAVE $500 off standard pricing

  • $2000 deposit upon accpetance

  • $4499 due within 30 days

What you get:

  • 8 days/7 nights accommodations in a luxury villa

  • 3 gourmet meals each day

  • Expert teachers and guidance

  • ​Advanced Tantra Massage and energy alchemy  techniques to take you to new heights of healing and ecstasy

  • Develop masterful relational skills for connection, healing, and conflict resolution

  • Post-retreat support via Zoom 30 days after the retreat ends for integration

  • Comprehensive Toolkit with take-home practices, rituals, and tools to continue your growth for years to come

STANDARD

Available until May 11, 2025

$6999 per couple

  • $2000 deposit upon acceptance

  • $4999 due within 30 days

What you get:

  • 8 days/7 nights accommodations in a luxury villa

  • 3 gourmet meals each day

  • Expert teachers and guidance

  • ​Advanced Tantra Massage and energy alchemy  techniques to take you to new heights of healing and ecstasy

  • Develop masterful relational skills for connection, healing, and conflict resolution

  • Post-retreat support via Zoom 30 days after the retreat ends for integration

  • Comprehensive Toolkit with take-home practices, rituals, and tools to continue your growth for years to come

The course fee includes: All course teachings and supplies, accommodations for 7 nights in a private room, and three catered meals a day.

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The course fee does not include: Flights to Arizona, airport transfer to the venue, or the cost of personal supplies that a participant is required to bring (e.g. yoga mat and blankets; an exact list will be sent prior to the course).

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To join this retreat, simply click the "Apply Here" button below to complete our online application form. Once submitted, our team will contact you via email to schedule a video call with our head teachers. Upon acceptance, a deposit will be required to secure your spot in this transformative experience.

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For cancellation and refunds please carefully read our Terms of Service and Liability Waiver before making your booking. By making payment, you confirm that you fully accept all terms presented in these documents. 

What You Will Learn and Practice

A joyful couple sharing a heartfelt embrace, radiating happiness and connection during the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat.
Tantra Massage Teachings & Practices
  • What is authentic Tantra and Tantra Massage

  • Step-by-step massage techniques for the whole body

  • Studying the human energy system

  • Sacred yoni and lingam massage for profound healing

  • Releasing blockages, traumas, and emotional baggage safely and harmoniously

  • The first steps in sexual mastery for men and women

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How a Relationship Breakthrough Works

A joyful couple sharing a close moment, symbolizing the deeper connection and intimacy cultivated during the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat.

Transformative Immersion

  • A high-intensity, spiritually charged environment for rapid breakthroughs.

  • Continuous reinforcement of new habits and mindsets to rewire your brain

  • Achieve in seven days what could take months or even years

  • Disconnect from technology and reconnect to yourself and your partner

A couple engaging in a heart-opening connection exercise, symbolizing trust, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy fostered during the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat.

Self-awareness & Empowerment

  • Discover attachment styles and relational triggers

  • Understand projection and deflection in a relationship dynamic

  • Embrace accountability and shift from blame to growth

  • Use your partner as a mirror for deeper self-awareness

A couple engaging in a Tantra Massage practice. The woman is attentively massaging her partner, fostering connection, intimacy, and trust.

Tantra Massage

  • Dissolves emotional baggage and reveals your true essence

  • Clears the “dust and dirt” from your soul, reconnecting you to your authentic self

  • Intelligently and intuitively uproots what no longer serves you

  • A lifelong tool for the next level of healing and intimacy

  • Opens tantric dimensions of your sexuality and intimacy

  • Keeps the passion alive

A couple engaging in a moment of mindful connection and prayer, symbolizing the spiritual teachings and deep bond fostered during the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat.

Spotlight Coaching

  • Personalized guidance to resolve your most challenging pain point

  • Transform conflict into connection in real-time

  • Gain insight into your unique dynamic

A joyful couple embracing on the beach, celebrating connection, intimacy, and the transformative journey of the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat.

Masterful Communication & Conflict Resolution

  • Learn conscious dialoguing to resolve conflict with openness

  • Build emotional safety and honor your differences

  • Transform challenges into growth opportunities

  • Learn to listen to understand and speak to inspire

A joyful couple embracing in a warm, light-filled space, celebrating connection and transformation during the Couples Retreat.

Spiritual Partnership

  • Spirituality as the backbone of your love and connection

  • Building a partnership rooted in the highest truth

  • Transform your relationship into a living offering to a higher power

  • Incorporate tantric practices daily to stay aligned with your shared vision

  • Love beyond ego and transactional patterns

  • Sacred service as the highest form of love and relating

A couple sharing a passionate kiss, representing deep connection, intimacy, and spiritual union during the Couples Retreat.

Who Are You as a Couple Once You Leave This Relationship Breakthrough?

Imagine this...

A couple embracing in an intimate moment, symbolizing sacred connection, vulnerability, and love in the Relationship Breakthrough Couples Retreat.

You and your partner arrive at the 7-day Relationship Breakthrough carrying the invisible weight of your relationship—the tension, the unspoken frustrations, the longing for something deeper. It’s familiar, maybe even “fine,” but deep down, you know there’s more.

 

Now, imagine walking out 7 days later...

 

You’ve shed the armor. The walls between you have crumbled. You’re no longer just co-existing but co-creating something extraordinary.

 

You’ve tapped into a love that feels alive, intimate, and true. You’re not just surviving—you’re thriving as a couple.

 

The future looks BRIGHT

 

You’re equipped with tools that turn challenges into opportunities, and instead of fear or frustration, you meet each other with curiosity, respect, and compassion.

 

What once felt like insurmountable issues are now pathways to self-discovery and growth.

You feel empowered, resilient, and liberated. For the first time, you are on the leading edge of what it means to truly relate and LOVE unconditionally.

Playfulness has returned, passion flows effortlessly, and your bond is unshakeable—sturdy and unwavering like a lighthouse amidst a storm.

 

You’re here not because it just “happened”, but because you learned how to make it happen.

 

You have become the stars of your own epic love story. 

 

This isn’t a retreat—it’s a reawakening. A relational death and REBIRTH.

 

It is a chance to step into a new relationship dynamic where both of you are the absolute best versions of yourselves.

 

Where love isn’t a struggle or a compromise, but a sacred partnership that elevates every aspect of your life.

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Yes, this CAN happen!

 

Don’t just imagine it—FEEL it in every cell of your being.

 

Because this transformation is what is waiting for you in this 7-day Relationship Breakthrough Couples retreat and it's yours to CLAIM!

 

If this is something you desire...

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Apply today to join the 

Relationship Breakthrough for Couples

Course Schedule & Retreat Policies

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Day 1 Schedule: Arrival & Introduction 

This 7-day Relationship Breakthrough is a residential course. All couples will cohabitate together for the full duration of the retreat in a luxury villa. This serene and private sanctuary will foster connection, transformation, and relaxation.​​​​

The schedule for day 1 (May 12, 2025) will be as follows: 

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4:00 PM: Arrival at the villa, check in, and settling into your private room

6:30 PM: Welcome dinner

8:00 PM: Opening ceremony, purification ritual, and introductory teachings 

10:00 PM: Rest - preparing for the transformative days to come

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Welcome to your Luxurious Sanctuary in the Heart of Scottsdale

This expansive 6,000-square-foot estate is meticulously designed to provide an unparalleled retreat experience, seamlessly blending opulence with comfort. It provides the perfect backdrop for your transformational journey. ​​

Property Highlights:

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  • Elegant Accommodations: The property features six beautifully appointed guest bedrooms, each with a private en-suite bathroom. Five rooms are furnished with plush king beds, while one offers twin beds for flexible accommodations, ensuring every couple enjoys comfort and privacy. Rooms will be assigned based on the order of registration, with priority for premium accommodations given to those who sign up earliest.

  • Gourmet Culinary Experience: Savor three catered, nourishing meals daily, thoughtfully prepared to energize your body and elevate your retreat experience. Each dish is crafted with care, blending wholesome ingredients with exceptional flavor. 

  • Outdoor Oasis: Immerse yourself in a beautifully landscaped paradise featuring a sparkling resort-style pool, soothing jacuzzi tub, and expansive outdoor living areas. With sun lounges, shaded retreats, and spaces that seamlessly blend indoor comfort with outdoor serenity, this tranquil haven is the perfect backdrop to enjoy Arizona's prime weather—whether basking in the afternoon sun or unwinding under the stars.

Love Transformed: Stories of Connection and Renewal

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We’ve attended retreats before, but nothing comes close to this. The combination of Tantra Massage and conscious connection was revolutionary. It helped us heal old wounds and gave us a completely new perspective on our relationship. We’re walking away with skills we can use for a lifetime.

Rachel and David L.

Vancouver, Canada

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Apply to Join the 
Relationship Breakthrough for Couples

EARLY BIRD

Available until March 29, 2025

Best Price

$6499 per couple

SAVE $500 off standard pricing

  • $2000 deposit upon accpetance

  • $4499 due within 30 days

What you get:

  • 8 days/7 nights accommodations in a luxury villa

  • 3 gourmet meals each day

  • Expert teachers and guidance

  • ​Advanced Tantra Massage and energy alchemy  techniques to take you to new heights of healing and ecstasy

  • Develop masterful relational skills for connection, healing, and conflict resolution

  • Post-retreat support via Zoom 30 days after the retreat ends for integration

  • Comprehensive Toolkit with take-home practices, rituals, and tools to continue your growth for years to come

STANDARD

Available until May 11, 2025

$6999 per couple

  • $2000 deposit upon acceptance

  • $4999 due within 30 days

What you get:

  • 8 days/7 nights accommodations in a luxury villa

  • 3 gourmet meals each day

  • Expert teachers and guidance

  • ​Advanced Tantra Massage and energy alchemy  techniques to take you to new heights of healing and ecstasy

  • Develop masterful relational skills for connection, healing, and conflict resolution

  • Post-retreat support via Zoom 30 days after the retreat ends for integration

  • Comprehensive Toolkit with take-home practices, rituals, and tools to continue your growth for years to come

The course fee includes: All course teachings and supplies, accommodations for 7 nights in a private room, and three catered meals a day.

​

The course fee does not include: Flights to Arizona, airport transfer to the venue, or the cost of personal supplies that a participant is required to bring (e.g. yoga mat and blankets; an exact list will be sent prior to the course).

​

To join this retreat, simply click the "Apply Here" button below to complete our online application form. Once submitted, our team will contact you via email to schedule a video call with our head teachers. Upon acceptance, a deposit will be required to secure your spot in this transformative experience.

​

For cancellation and refunds please carefully read our Terms of Service and Liability Waiver before making your booking. By making payment, you confirm that you fully accept all terms presented in these documents. 

  • Who are private courses for?
    This exclusive offering is designed for couples who value a more private and customized learning environment with individualized care and attention. Immerse yourself in the sacred teachings of Tantra Massage in the comfort of your own home or a location of your choice. Your private course will meet you where you are currently at in your relationship dynamic and will be tailored-made just for YOU! Course durations can vary depending on how intensive and deep you want to go while the massage practices will be catered to meet your specific needs and goals both individually as well as in the coupleship. By the end of a private course, you will have a personalized massage practice that will help to take your relationship to the next level.
  • Is nudity involved?
    Yes, this course includes nudity in front of the teacher, hands-on demonstrations of the massage techniques on the couple, and intimate personal touch between partners. Sarongs and/or towels are used to cover parts of the body that are not being massaged. Do note, nudity is always approached with discretion and an attitude of devotion and respect. Nevertheless, it is important to keep an open mind and practically evaluate your level of comfort and readiness.
  • What is sacred Yoni and Lingam massage?
    Yoni is the Sanskrit word tantrics use to refer to the vagina while Lingam is the corresponding name for the man's penis. It is safe to say the genitals are indeed a part of your body and they should not be neglected or ignored according to Tantra. The genitals for most modern people are actually storehouses for stress, unresolved emotions, trauma, and blockages. Such things can make you feel heavy emotionally and mentally, inhibit you from living your best life, cause health issues and dis-ease, and suppress your sexuality and full orgasmic potential. Luckily Tantra Massage can help through the sacred practice of Yoni and Lingam massage. This is done in a therapeutic way and with the intention to bring healing to the area, increase sensitivity (especially in the case of women), activate key reflexology points and zones, and re-educate the energy to move the way nature intended it (upwards instead of outwards). Yoni and Lingam massage are done in such a way that the sexual energy is conserved and maintained. Techniques are employed to help men minimize erections and avoid ejaculation so that maximum pleasure can be achieved with no loss of the sacred fluids.
  • Will I experience energetic effects and the full-body energy orgasm in the private course?
    These teachings provide valuable knowledge as well as life-changing experiences. While the techniques and practices are proven to work and produce energetic, healing, and orgasmic effects, this cannot be guaranteed. Experiencing such effects very much depend upon many individual factors such as level of purity, overall health, blockages, and other considerations. It may be that more time and practice are needed to achieve the desired results. Please consider this before booking a private course.
  • Why must men maintain sexual continence?
    When men receive a tantric massage from their partner or the teacher in a private course setting, it is important to understand that there is no ejaculation or loss of sexual fluids. There are techniques that are applied to ensure compliance. Tantra deems the sexual fluids as precious life force energy that should be conserved and never lost. This is known as brahmacharya. By conserving their sexual energy, men can learn to access high states of pleasure, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and full-body fulfillment they never dreamed possible. They can even learn how to become multi-orgasmic and powerful lovers through this inner cultivation of their sexual energy.
  • How do I know if I have blockages?
    It is safe to say that in these modern times, everyone has blockages to some degree or another. They can originate from various sources such as childhood memories or traumas, one’s upbringing, injuries, surgeries, ignored and stored emotions, stress, health problems, physical or sexual abuse, long-term unhappy relationships, childbirth, disease, toxins and impurities, karma, and past lives, just to name a few. Blockages are areas in our energetic structure where energy cannot flow or is stuck. Over time, these blockages can produce outward manifestations in the form of emotional overwhelm, anxiety, depression, dis-ease, sexual dysfunctions, apathy, mental disturbances, and many others. Tantra Massage is known for its ability to release these blockages, known or unknown, in a harmonious and effective way.
  • Is sex or sexual activities a part of the private course?
    No, there is no sex or explicit sexual acts of any kind allowed within the teaching environment. Tiffany upholds the highest integrity and professionalism at all times.

Still have questions about this retreat? Book a call with one of our teachers. 

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